Hi,
Welcome to the community! 
I don't have the Essentials: Strength DVD, but I do have the other 2.
Now, do you already train in Martial Arts, or are you planning on learning a discipline?
Furthermore, what discipline(s) are you going to focus in?
I think that would really give us the best idea of what kind of routine would really maximize your results.
For me, speaking in general terms, I do the All Body XPress workout twice a week, I do metabolic circuits twice a week, and do the stretches on the Flexibility DVD everyday. Doing that for the last 3 months I've got my body fairly ripped.
But I think the best thing would be to get exactly what you are doing, and what you want to accomplish. That would really help in giving you the best information.
Thanks,
Justin